When Should You Stop Holding Your Toddler? There's no specific age for when you should stop holding your toddler, as it depends on their development, comfort, and your parenting style. Generally, as toddlers grow more independent, they naturally seek to explore on their own. You can gradually reduce holding them as they become more confident in walking and navigating their environment. However, it's still important to offer comfort and physical closeness when needed, as holding can provide emotional support and bonding. Trust your instincts and your child's cues to determine the right balance.